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So when he asked me to stand before him naked, I had a flicker of doubt and fear. This was my first time with my dominant. My Sir.
This can sometimes speak to stereotypical gender roles where a man is supposed to be large and in charge. While most women do not mind this, there are some women who like to change it up a bit and be the ones cracking the whip in the bedroom - pun intended. It is very sexy. Some men flat-out protest the idea of being tied up or subdued and allowing me to do as I please.
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Men want to be him, women want to be with him. He gets his way and picks up women with ease. Everyone loves him.
For black men and women, slavery was an equally devastating experience. Both were torn from homeland and family. Both were forced to perform grueling labor, subjected to mental and physical degradation, and denied their most basic rights.
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Takeaway: Use your powers as a Dominant for good! The first time I ever found myself in a bedroom, surrounded by rope and in the presence of a willing girl, I will confess I let the moment go to my head. I was 20 years old, she was eager to please, and I had absolutely zero experience with neither rope playnor acting like someone who was supposed to be "in control" of a kinky situation.