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Punishments are used to correct negative behavior. Of course, I'm assuming here that you have already begun training your sub, and she knows what is expected of her. The two of you should agree on your behaviors, what you expect of her, and the punishment she can expect if she does not obey.
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One of the main factors, for me in feeling truly Owned is to be constantly reminded throughout the day of Master's control. These reminders can be subtle or really obtrusive. The more often a slave is reminded of her submission, the deeper it becomes
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As a submissive male, I have always felt punishment and discipline is a huge component to my submission. It constantly makes me better. To me, certain punishment and discipline techniques need to scare me, humiliate me, keep me on my toes and ultimately mould me into the perfect submissive for my princess.
Using the belt always straightens me out, quickly. I hate the belt, but it does keep my mind right. Don't judge, we're all freaks here.
However, it is possible for some acts of degradation to ALSO humiliate. Either by better behavior or a fun time, participants should be aiming for a positive outcome. Punishments should be clear and consistent. Because strangers walking down the street — vanilla or otherwise — are not able or might not want to consent to seeing it.